When spoken word artist Brenna Twohy tells you that she is an unabashed devotee of all things “Potterotica” — erotic fiction based in the magical universe of Harry Potter — your response probably shouldn’t be that her taste is “unrealistic.”
I’m happy to be getting to the point where I don’t have to feel weird about enjoying fanfiction, or having written a bunch of it. Partly it’s that the fandom experience has become more broadly shared. Partly it’s that I stopped giving a shit.
And as for why I like the porny sort of fanfiction, see above. She says it better.
I like sex with context. I like sex when it involves fully fleshed out characters. I like the backstories. I like feeling like these people do other things when they aren’t having sex.
I think some people fail to realize that men can be sexually assaulted, too, and not just by other men. This girl shoves him against the wall and slaps him three fucking times when he pushes her away. Heck, he has to push her away twice before she backs off for a moment. Then she goes right back to kissing him.
If the genders were reversed, everyone on this site would be flipping a shit. And if anyone dares to tell me that it’s different when a girl does it to a guy, I will personally write you a three-page essay on why it is still not okay.
I’m just going to REBLOG this all the fucking time
I SWEAR I WILL ALWAYS REBLOG THIS.
I will never not reblog this
I’m not saying assault doesn’t go both ways, and I’m not saying this wouldn’t be horrendous. But this is from a Danish anti-voyeurism/anti-violence PSA that started running in 2010, these are actors. Just so you know.
It’s all done by an organization called “The Bitch Hits Back”, who operate by luring you to watch violent videos/play violent games and then basically calling you out for watching other people suffer for your entertainment. Quite effective, in my opinion. http://www.thebitchhitsback.dk
I’d like to take a moment to talk about what a real dominant is- and yes this will primarily be aimed at males only because I myself am a male and have never really encountered a full out female dom in a sexual setting (too much clashing).